During the early days of the pandemic, many families had to forgo in-person visits with senior seniors to keep them safe.
A year ago, the lockdown forced Erika Shimahara, the writer of this week’s Modern Love essay, to find a safe and creative way to stay engaged with her 84-year-old mother, who lives in an assisted living facility. . The couple spent their time sweating and dancing to a curated playlist of their mom’s favorite songs on FaceTime. “Without Covid, I would never have learned that my mom and I can have fun together without being in the same place,” Ms. Shimahara writes.
In 2018, when Sara Cunningham posted a message on her Facebook account saying she would replace any mom who did not attend their child’s wedding, she had no idea the post would go viral. After reading stories about LGBTQ people whose families refused to attend their wedding, she founded the nonprofit group Free Mom Hugs. In addition to cuddling at various LGBTQ events, Ms Cunningham also performs and attends same-sex weddings.
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